A Funeral Mass is held when the body or cremains of the deceased is present in the church.

When planning a Funeral Mass, please contact St Thomas (208.664.9259) as to the availability of our priests calendar. 

• Choosing a funeral home is a very important step after your gravesite/niche purchase. A funeral home will take care of almost all the funeral arrangements, which is their specialty. Please contact a funeral home for pre-need or current need arrangements as soon as possible. 
• Once you choose either a full burial or cremation as well as a funeral home, we can help you with some of the other arrangements. These may include the purchase of a burial or inurnment site and graveside services, We offer an after-service reception in the Parish Center.
• Occasionally, only a graveside service will be performed at St Thomas Cemetery because the deceased had a funeral service in another city or state and waited to inurn the cremains here at a later date.

• Grave: an in-ground space. We have full burial plots as well as smaller plots that will accommodate two cremains.
• Niche: a 10 1/4" cubed space in either the Shrine or Sign that will hold two cremains. They are covered by a granite closure.
• Cremains: sometimes referred to as "ashes", these are the cremated remains of the deceased.
• Stole fee: this is the stipend for our priest to officiate the Mass and graveside service. If the graveside service immediately follows the Mass, there is only one stole fee charged. This is paid through your funeral home.
• Perpetual Care fee: a one-time state mandated fee of $125 that St Thomas will collect.
• Niche engraving/ Each name on your niche is engraved at the cost is $150. There is space for 2 cremains in each niche.
• Vault/Liner/Grave Box: a concrete liner for a full burial that is paid through your funeral home. A vault seals permanently.
• Easement transfer: When you have paid in full for a burial plot or niche, an easement for your property will be sent to you. This will take a few weeks because it will be sent to the Diocese of Boise for their seal. If you decide you do not want or need your burial plot or niche sometime in the future, you may pass it on to a relative or friend or sell it back to St Thomas Cemetery. In the event that you choose to pass it to someone else, a new easement will be issued to the person you deed it to. The fee for changing the name on an easement is $40 per easement. If you decide to sell it back to St Thomas, there is no charge for an easement transfer.
• Monument or headstone. You will arrange for these when it is convenient. Many people have this made and installed well in advance of need, if you decide to have one. A beautiful monument to your loved one is a nice remembrance of them. We recommend both Memorial Monument in Coeur d'Alene (208.539.0929) and Tresko Monument in Spokane (509.838.3196). 

A Funeral Mass or Service can have up to three readings: OT, NT and Gospel 
Fr. Mariusz will choose these readings,
Please notify Tina Johnson ([email protected]) if you have a preference prior to the funeral.
 

• Old Testament                                                                                    

1. Job 19:1, 23-27
2. .Wisdom 3:1-9                                                                              
3. Wisdom 4:7-15
4. Isaiah 25:6a, 7-9
5. Lamentations 3:17-26
6. Daniel 12:1-3
7. 2 Maccabees 12:43-46

• Responsorial Psalms (sung by cantor, if present)

1. 23
2. 25
3. 27
4. 42, 43
5. 63
6. 103
7. 116
8. 122
9. 130
10. 143

•  New Testament

1. Acts 10:34-43 
2. Romans 5:5-11
3. Romans 5:17-21
4. Romans 6:3-9 
5. Romans 8:14-23
6. Romans 8:31b-35, 37-39
7. Romans 14:7-9, 10b-12
8. 1 Corinthians 15:20-23, 24b-28 or 15:20-23
9. 1 Corinthians 15:51-57
10. 2 Corinthians 4:14-5:1
11. 2 Corinthians 5:1, 6-10
12. Philippians 3:20-21
13. 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18
14. 2 Timothy 2:8-13
15. 1 John 3:1-2
16. 1 John 3:14-16
17. Revelation 14:13
18. Revelation 20:11-21:1
19. Revelation 21:1-5a, 6b-7

• Alleluia Verses and Verses before the Gospel (to be said by the priest)
• To choose, click here.

• Gospel Readings ( to be professed by the priest)

1. Matthew 5:1-12a
2. Matthew 11:25-30
3. Matthew 25:1-13
4. Matthew 25:31-46
5. Mark 15:33-39; 16:1-6 or 15:33-39
6. Luke 7:11-17
7. Luke 12:35-40
8. Luke 23:33, 39-43
9. Luke 23:44-46, 50, 52-53, 24:1-6a or 23:44-46, 50, 52-53
10. Luke 24:13-35 or 24:13-16, 28-35
11. John 5:24-29
12. John 6:37-40
13. John 6:51-58
14. John 11:17-27
15. John 11:32-45
16. John 12:23-28
17. John 14:1-6
18. John 17:24-26
19. John 19:17-18, 25-30

The Ladies Auxiliary is back joyfully hosting after funeral receptions in the parish center. Receptions are  provided by the Ladies Auxiliary on a donation basis as they purchase and prepare all the food. Please call Kathy Perez, our Ladies Auxiliary contact person:208-664-2885. No alcohol is permitted on the property, parking lot included. Also, no receptions on Tuesday afternoons when we have our soup kitchen.

You may choose any funeral home or monument company. We have listed the ones we work with on a regular basis.

English Funeral Chapel: www.englishfuneralchapel.com
   Coeur d'Alene: 208.664.3143   1133 N. 4th
   Post Falls: 208.773.3425, 1700 N. Spokane St.
Yates Funeral Home: www.yatesfuneralhomes.com
   Coeur d'Alene: 208.664.3151  744 N. 4th
   Hayden: Phone: 208 772-1915 373 E. Hayden Avenue
Bell Tower Funeral Home https://belltowerfuneralhome.com
   Post Falls: 208.457.8880 3398 East Jenalan Avenue

Tresko Monument 509.838.3196

Double side-by-side plots, headstone maximum size 60" X 24" including a 4" collar within that measurement. Not taller than 4'
Single full plot, headstone maximum size: 36" X 24" including a 4" collar within that measurement  Not taller than 4'
Cremation grave headstone maximum size 24" X 16" including a 4" collar within that measurement
Infant grave headstone maximum size 16" X 12" including a 3" collar within that measurement

Brian Bogdanowitz, Director of Sacred Music. 208.620.1823    [email protected]
Cantor $125
Please call Brian for music information. He will help you with your music and cantor choices and will discuss pricing with you.